As time continues to fly by… the semester gets closer and closer. Some of you may even be on campus at this time. With all that college entails, it’s hard to do it all by yourself. I remember my first year I felt extremely alone, it made my experience less enjoyable and It was hard getting through my first semester without anyone by my side. I had a few people I was close with, but I wouldn’t classify them as “friends” or people I could necessary count on. Towards the end of the first semester and beginning of second semester of my first year, that’s when I truly found my community. My experience the second half of my first year was much more enjoyable. No matter how much you have your ish together, or how strong you may think you are, you need people. God created humans to need community. God specifically says we are not supposed to do this alone! It may take you quicker than me to find your college community, or maybe even longer (especially if you’re an introvert like myself.) No matter how long it takes you, it will be so worth it. Here’s a little secret… the people I met during orientation did not end up to be my best friends. And that’s okay! Maybe you’ll have a different experience and meet your lifelong friend on your first day of orientation… but maybe not. Just remember your people are there somewhere, even if it may take you a little to find them. The people you meet in college are people that will be apart of your life for years to come. Having a strong community will elevate your college experience, will help you grow both academically and interpersonally.
Keep reading for some tips on establishing community on your college campus..
Tips from a Current College Student:
Engage in Campus Activities: Although this may seem quite simple, it is hard to balance and manage everything once the semester begins. You may not have time to go to this or that campus event let alone even have the time to eat that day (which you should do both.) But, at least once every few weeks or months.. try to go to campus events or activities. You don’t have to go to every single one (unless you want to!), but pick out a few of your favorites and don’t be scared to go alone! Or.. maybe mention the event to someone you sit next to in class and ask if they plan to go, or offer if they would like to join you. That’s one way to 1. Not go alone and 2.Possibly make a new friend?
Join Clubs/Organizations: Join clubs, organizations, or intramural sports that align with your interests. Whether that’s joining the knitting club, debate team, basketball team, or getting involved in Greek Life, find something you like and do it! Pick a few clubs to join (but don’t overwhelm your schedule with too many.) Joining clubs helps you to meet new people and connect with others who share similar passions. These connections could lead to lifelong friendships, or help you establish a professional network. Regardless… you will put yourself out there, make your name known, and start to meet new people.
Establish Study Groups: Talk to the people in your classes! (They are in there for a reason.. and you must have something in common if you’re both in the same class in the same area of study) Study groups are not only a game changer for academic success, but also personal growth and development. In doing so, you will meet new people, share ideas, and bond over all that the class entails. Form or join a study group for each class (yes… every single one) This will benefit your learning while simultaneously allowing you to build a network of likeminded individuals.
Utilize Campus Resources: Most of the time, colleges offer a lot of resources for students. Using these resources can elevate your academic growth, but also your personal growth. Take advantage of academic advising, tutoring services, career guidance, or counseling. Building relationships with faculty and staff can provide guidance and support beyond the classroom. Attend your professors office hours (even if you don’t need help with anything), participate in discussions, and seek feedback from your professors. Doing so will make you stand out and help you establish a good rapport. Establish a good relationship with faculty/staff.. they may not become your best friends but they can serve as wonderful mentors and can connect you with additional opportunities/networks.
Get Involved in your Local Community: Engaging in community service or volunteer work is a great way to give back to your community and build connections. Some universities may even have community service oriented initiatives or clubs! Volunteering allows you to meet like minded individuals while also making a positive impact on your community!
Attend Networking Events: Colleges often host networking events, career fairs, and guest lectures. These are excellent opportunities to meet professionals, alumni, and other students. Not only could you meet some great (and very successful) people.. but these events could also set you up for internship opportunities, jobs, or just valuable advice from others who were in your position at one point in time.
Seek Out Others Outside of Your Class: Upperclassmen can offer guidance and share their experiences. From my personal experience.. upperclassmen tend to be more accepting, helpful, and willing to include you. Even if they do not become your best friends.. they can serve as peer mentors who provide valuable insights into navigating college life!
Lastly…
Finals Thoughts and Piece of Advice: If you are seeking for a good, solid, community… pray (without ceasing.. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18.) God will send you the right people at the right time, exactly when it’s meant for you. Even if you have to wait.. you will be blessed beyond what you could even imagine. You can only do so much individually. However, God’s plan for you is better than you could ever do on your own. Have faith! God will give you the desires of your heart. You got this! and remember… I’m praying for you friend. ♡.
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